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Day 17 — Someone from your childhood

Dear Dan,

I miss you, even though we are talking more now than we have in recent years I still miss you.  With you being all the way in NC and me in IL its hard. You were the first man I lived with...that I didnt have some DNA connection with. All of your nagging to make me clean up...i remember it like it was yesterday. I miss Wexford Hills and AT&T. Us outracing a tornado...those were the days.
We've been through so much. You've seen me at my worst and you've never left my side. Protected me from harm and always listened and offered sound advice. (even though i rarely took it)
It was so wonderful to see you over Christmas. I love surprises.  Cant wait to see you this year.

Love always,

Kan

Day 16 — Someone that’s not in your state/country

Hey Bobby!!!!

I decided to let you get your shine on day 16.  You are one of my favorite Auburn Alabama Roll Tide, bacon loving e-friends.  You have always been supportive of the radio show, daboard, and me in general.  You are an awesome father and husband.  I hope to one day meet you (just dont bring Dub..lol) and we can have a bacon buffet. Bacon burgers, bacon dogs, bacon bologna, bacon wrapped shrimp, bacon kabobs, well you get the picture.

Roll Tide!!! (except for the last game that they play against GSU),

Kandice

Day 15 — The person you miss the most

Dear Brittany and Destiny,

I love you, I miss you, I'll see you soon.

Love,

Mom

Day 14 — Someone you’ve drifted away from

Dear John,

We need to have a conversation...in person.  Its been what 5 years now. We have the most intriguing and thought provoking conversations, dont we? I feel like you are on my to-do list. Not someone I need "to-do" but you know what I'm saying. LOL  Ok before I say too much I will stop.  Call me and schedule an appointment so that we can talk this thing out and come to some sort of conclusion.

Anxiously waiting,

Kandice

Day 13 - Someone you wish could forgive you

Dear Marty,

I've been dreading writing this letter, but just like the others its something I need to get out.  I dont know if you have forgiven me for all that I have said and done or not. Maybe you have.  I just feel the need to say a few things. It feels odd being in this city and actually being so close to where you live currently and never seeing you and never talking to you.  We had a bond that I have never had with anyone else.  I wish often that I could go back in time and change a few things...not alot. I would have still loved you as much as I did. However, it would not have been a romantic love and I would still have my friend right now

I learned something very powerful on Oprah yesterday. She said someone told her "Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different." So I am moving on from wondering what could have been. Actually I have moved on a while ago and I know you have too.  I spoke to our mutual friend about whether I should contact you to re-establish a friendship.  He said it would be a good idea but I never made the effort. After some thought I figured I should live well enough alone.  If we are meant to be friends again, time will do the work for us. I wish you well, I was thinking about you the other day...because it was Jahz's birthday...I didnt forget :)


Peace and blessings,


Kandi

Day 12 — The person you hate most/caused you a lot of pain

Dear Mike,

I dont hate you and I dont think you have cause me a lot of pain, I just figured you were the closest to it so here you go!  You are a liar, and not even a good liar.  You tried so hard to be Mr. Playa Playa and got busted every single time. *cue Antoine Dodson* you are dumb, you are so dumb!  Anyway, I'm glad I didnt marry you, I would be stuck with the child support that you are currently dodging by moving to Ohio. I wish you all the best....sexually transmitted diseases. :)

Signed,

Happy to have dodged that bullet.